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Addiction and Families: How Addiction Affects The Family

  • Reviewed by: Dr. Carl Williams, Ph.D., LCADC
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  • Reviewed by: Dr. Carl Williams, Ph.D., LCADC
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Learn about the impact of addiction on families and learn how family involvement is crucial to the recovery process.

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The Impact of Addiction on Family Dynamics & Support Systems

Addiction In The Family

Family is where we expect a caring, supportive and nurturing environment. You will be suitable to expect accommodative and social responsiveness from those you consider family. Sometimes addiction happens, and your expectations are shattered.

Habit is using or taking something even though it could damage you. You can end up dependent on anything from shopping, social media, working, gambling, or technological gadgets. Usually, people associate addiction with drugs, including prescribed medication, alcohol, and nicotine.

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Social, Genetic, & Environmental Factors

Why Do People Get Addicted?

Social Influence

You are at a party, and everyone there is taking a stimulant. You experiment with a puff out of curiosity or the need to fit in. You feel euphoric, and you keep going back for more.

Within no time, you cannot seem to function without the drug. You see nothing wrong because ‘everyone’ is doing it. You also have a source to quench the urge.

The same happens to social media addiction. You get pleasure every time you are on a social media site.

Every time you receive a like, share, retweet, or view, your moods boost. The internet triggers the feel-good neurotransmitter called dopamine. You constantly engage on social media at the expense of socializing in real life.

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Biological or genetic factors also predispose a person’s likelihood of getting addicted. Some genes affect antisocial behavior in adults. They also influence alcohol and drug abuse.

These genes help the body process alcohol and drugs. People with the G-allele in the DNA code have more urge to drink alcohol and find it hard to repel alcohol.

Some factors are brought about by childhood development and adolescence. Child abuse and parental practices influence the behavior a child will likely adopt in the future.

Traumatic events in early childhood expose a child to drugs and alcohol as an adolescent. Many teens may become addicted to drugs, alcohol, gambling, or social media. They often do this to escape their reality or numb their feelings.

Environmental Influence

The surroundings to which one is exposed can determine the likelihood of addiction. A stressful environment will lead a person to seek ways to find relief. An environment that accepts alcohol or drugs will lead a person to seek comfort in using them. If your family members take drugs, they can influence you to engage.

Friends on social media often post photos of alcohol and smoking at parties and homes. If you live in a neighborhood where taking drugs is normal, you will not see any harm in engaging in the same. Many young adults begin taking drugs and alcohol in college because of availability and normalization.

There are other causes of addiction. A quest to lose weight, increase performance, or do away with pain, can result in addiction.

A sick person may get opioids for pain relief or stimulants for ADHD. However, misusing these medications can lead to dependency. The goal is never to become addicted, but it happens.

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Recognizing the Early Warning Signs

Signs of Addiction

You might believe you can control your fix and stop whenever you want. However, someone close to you may see a different side of you.

The following are some of the behaviors that indicate an addiction;

  • Changes in behavior and moods can range from extreme happiness to sadness, irritability, and interest.
  • Fatigue or hyperactiveness, red eyes, lack of sleep, and difficulty focusing.
  • Lack of interest in family, withdrawal, and lack of cooperation and alienation from members.
  • Change in dressing, and sometimes a person ignores their body hygiene.
  • Lack of control prevents you from staying away from the substance.
  • It was becoming careless even to yourself, for instance, drinking while drunk or sharing needles.

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Impact of Addiction on Personal, Family, & Community Well-being

Effects of Addiction

Having a loved one with a drug or alcohol addiction impacts negatively on the members. The repercussions affect the addict and the innocent bystanders.

Financial implications

Finances that would otherwise be spent on other beneficial engagements end up financing an addiction. An addict will even spend productive time feeding their addiction at the expense of working. You spend time drinking or on social media and lose your job.

Efforts to fight addiction are costly and affect most families, especially when the remedies fail to work. Gambling addicts will finish a family’s wealth in no time.

Indifferences between members

In some cases, an addicted family member turns violent towards other members. The intended tight relationship erodes and leads to emotional detachment.

Addiction affects children and married couples. An aggressive addict will cause psychological issues to the spouse, such as helplessness, fear, and hopelessness. Children in such unions end up neglected.

Judgment from the community

If you come from a society that does not see addiction as a disease, helping an addict can feel embarrassing. Most people will view an addict as having loose morals and lacking discipline and self-control. When you associate with an addict, you attract the same social shame. People presume that the parents of an addict have failed to raise the child properly and have enabled the behavior.

Negative effect on others

A pregnant woman abusing alcohol or drugs has an increased risk of affecting the baby in her womb; some of the effects last a lifetime. A smoker will expose others to risks such as lung cancer. Children raised in families with addicted members will involve themselves with the substance used. The disease of addiction has a ripple effect not only on the user.

Changes in family functioning

Families with members suffering from addiction will sometimes find the roles changing to suit the situation. A father who is addicted and unable to meet his family’s basic needs will push the eldest child’s wife to take over. The family may force the eldest child to mature faster and shoulder the father’s responsibilities. The wife may need to cover up for the father’s failure by taking on more obligations to keep the family afloat.

Feelings of disappointment

An addicted member will lie, steal and do anything to feed their addiction. A family faced with addiction will lose loyalty and resentment towards the addict. Efforts to intervene may fail, resulting in anger and loss of trust. Understanding why a person is hurting the family is hard.

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Effective Strategies for Supporting Family Members

How to Help a Family Member With Addiction?

  • Addiction is a chronic illness. You cannot sit back and fold your hands when a family member gets diagnosed with cancer, for example. The main help for an addict is to get their control back. To help a family member, you must acknowledge and confront a problem without judging or labeling the person. Sometimes you may need to distance yourself from the addict to avoid trouble. Please do these instead.

  • Point out the need for help to the addicted person. Most often, addicted people do not notice that they need help. Talk to your kin while they are sober, and explain why you think they need help. Guide your relatives somewhere to find the right tools for their healing. Unless you are a qualified psychologist, do not take on that role.

  • Help find the correct treatment. Recovery is a journey; each patient has their path; some need therapy, others need rehabilitation or hospitalization. You can help your loved one fight through withdrawal symptoms, attend family therapies together and support them when they feel it is too complicated and cannot do it anymore.

  • Stop enabling the behavior. Sometimes in an attempt to help, you may end up allowing the behavior to continue. You may be encouraged by covering up for the person, lying about their whereabouts, or giving them cash for something while you know they will end up buying the substance. Set limits and confront the addict with love and understanding. You may need to make tough decisions and stand by them.

  • Help the patient stay in a treatment program. Change the environment, or avoid anything that can activate or set off the behavior again. If it is an addiction to social media, find out why the person prefers social media contact. Please encourage them to stay away from gadgets and devices. If it requires behavioral change, support your family. Minimize exposure to items that enable the addiction.

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In Conclusion

Why Family Support Is Critical for Overcoming Addiction

There is no denying that addiction profoundly impacts an individual’s family unit. Sometimes when the patient is on a recovery journey, relapse happens. It does not mean the person failed and you should give up. Recovery means that the person changes from their old habits and adopts a new lifestyle.

Change is not easy. Healing does not happen at once.

A person who feels forced or denied will change temporarily and will soon look for a way to reward themselves in secret.

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Written By:

Geoffrey Andaria

Geoffrey Andaria mental health writer at rolling hills recovery center
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Geoffrey Andaria is an experienced mental health content writer and editor. With a B.A. in English and Journalism, Geoffrey is highly educated in freelance articles and research. Having taken courses on social work, Geoffrey is adamant about providing valuable and educational information to individuals affected by mental health and the disease of addiction.

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Dr. Carl Williams Ph.D., LCADC

Carl Williams, medical content reviewer at rolling hills recovery center
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Dr. Williams presently serves on the board of Directors for two non-profit service organizations. He holds a Master’s degree in Human Services from Lincoln University, Philadelphia, Pa, and a Ph.D. with a concentration in Clinical Psychology from Union Institute and University. In Cincinnati, Ohio. He is licensed to practice addictions counseling in both New Jersey and Connecticut and has a pending application as a practicing Psychologist in New Jersey.

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